Big Mama
Here in Livingstone, Zambia as I walk through our community, on dirt roads and pot whole ridden paved streets, I am constantly called by two names: Mazungu and Big Mama.
Mazungu means white person/foreigner. When I am called mazungu, I can agree, yes, I do look different than my neighbors. I can wear the same clothes and style my hair the same but I will always look different.
When I am called Big Mama, it’s because of my size. Because of my size, it is assumed that I have had many children.
I have never been married and have not birthed any children.
Marriage and children are a...